WHAT TO EXPECT:
Traditional Tantra teachings say that expectations are limitations.
With expectations come psychological anxiety, fear and insecurities.
Traditional Tantra Massage teaches everyone to “Arrive as you, not as what is expected of “you””.
You are the discovery and the core of Tantra Massage teachings.
PeaceQuiet ® / Diamond Lotus
- The Giver is not a receiver
- The Receiver is not a giver
Approach to the body:
- We regard the body as a body of senses, feelings, and emotions
- and utterly asexual to us
- There is no space for sex in Tantra Massage
- No space for mutual touch
- No space for mutual pleasuring
- No space for sexual practices
Nothing wrong with sex. There is a place for it and that is not in Tantra Massage or in Tantra Erotic Massage. Our massages are tools for the discovery of self-pleasure, self-joy, self-bliss, self-ecstasy, body cell awareness and rediscovery. To which sex will be more of a hindrance rather than a benefit.
- The massage is given on a mattress placed on the floor
- No space for mutual touch
- The Receiver receives the massage unclothed
- The Give gives the massage unclothed
We massage the entire body unclothed, it is a rule, it is the way it has been designed by Diamond Lotus Institute of Tantra Massage in Berlin.
No more no less.
Contrary to public knowledge Tantra Massage helps develop a natural and balanced relationship with one’s own body as we keep the sexualisation of pleasure and of the body outside our Teachings and of our Tantra massage space.
Tantra Massage is a space for inner expression, the open and free explosive celebration of emotions, the welcoming and free celebration all over the body sensation, feelings, and emotions. The receiver is encouraged and guided towards how to express and welcome unfolding cell-based feelings, sensations, and emotions without shame, fear of judgement or criticism.
PeaceQuiet does follow a very clear set of boundaries.
The welfare of our practitioners and the welfare of every woman who entrusts her welfare to us is of paramount importance to us.
PeaceQuiet demands mutual respect and honour and this is whether the human body is clothed or unclothed. To us, the human body is always regarded as “The Sacred Temple of one’s soul” which we approach with respect, and honour it unconditionally.
In our profession, we devote our Tantra Wisdom and Tantra Massage skills to help women rediscover the beauty and the liberating power of a neutral and asexual body, but there is nothing better than the results of a little questionnaire to showcase our position versus the way many of us have been indoctrinated to view and to relate to our bodies.
PeaceQuiet: “when comes to touch, tell me, what sex is and is not.”
Answer: “even though sex is not that important to me, sex is part of our human nature, and it is not natural not to have sex if you see what I mean.”
PQ: “What is the sexual and what is the non-sexual part of the human body”
Answer: “the sexual organs are sexual, and the rest of the body is non-sexual”
PQ: “what makes a massage a sexual massage.”
Answer: “like this one. You massage naked and on the floor. I am naked too. And you touch me sexually.”
PQ: “What do you consider sexual touch?”
Answer: “any touch that touches the sexual organs, especially when you are naked and all that, is touching you sexually”.
In this case, we must conclude that when one takes one’s clothes off, let say for a shower in the morning, one’s blood and hands become sexual and when one gets one’s clothes back on again, they becomes asexual!
After all, the blood and the hands are the only human tissue that touches the sexual organs, and if it’s true that “any touch that touches the sexual organs, especially when you are naked and all of that, is touching you sexually” then it must also be true that the blood and the hands are of a sexual nature.
Our intention here is to invite a whole new possibility, one which can actually consider the body as something neutral; the possibility of a body that can sense the complex array of sensations without the need to sexualise anything; leaving names, labels, fears, beliefs and concepts where they belong, and that is, in the realm of thoughts. Neutrality and asexuality are perhaps the least understood aspects of our human nature. The question is obviously, why?
A Traditional Tantra Massage practitioner certainly knows why, and this is why our Tantra Massages are neutral and fully dedicated to the body, and not the mind. At PeaceQuiet® Tantra Massage Temple we point towards a whole different kind of seeing and understand. Here we only work with mindless eyes.